Tuesday, 11 August 2009

• did my mom meddle too much?

  so sometimes when me and "D" hng out we playfully wrestle eachother and i have gotten a  few bruises from it.  he's NOT physically abusing me at all. It's all been out of being playful with eachother. the first time my mom saw the bruises she was really worried about it but i assured her it was fine. she told me to tell him to just be more gentle with me since even though he's not doing it on purpose, he should not give me bruises because one day i could get hurt really bad by accident.  Just the other day she saw a new bruise, and she got upset again. I assured her again it's nothing. The next day when "D" came over she sat down and talked to him about it, and told him that even though it is playful i shouldnt get any bruises, and how she's been through a lot and that there are abusive ppl out there etc... I was so angry she talked to him about it, i feel like she betrayed my trust.  "D" doesn't want to come oer to my house anymore because of it and i'm really upset. He would come over every  night but for the past souple of nights he hasn't.  He said he wanted to talk to my mom and iron things out and my mom wanted to talk to him too and just explain herself again since it seemed to be taken differently than what she wanted. he thinksshe hates him and thinks he's abusive, which is not what she meant at all. bottom line, he says he doesn't want to com over for a while. But then he'll make some jokes and say "if your mom does this, or ur dad does this for me etc.., i'll come over again".  this makes me think that this is jus a game to him and my feelings are really on the line here. I don't know what to do, cuz i'm so upset he's not coming over.

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