Wednesday, 19 August 2009
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Do/ Should other people's moods affect you?
If someone is in a bad mood or just in some sort of funk, should that affect you and your mood? Me and "D" get together every day. Yesterday was perfect. Today, not so good. He started school and he was really tired today and just sort of in a mellow mood. We hung out at after his classes and then about an hour later he wanted to go home and shower and rest up. then we hung out again later that night for another hour or so then he had to go home cuz he has early class tomorrow and he was exhausted. After he left the first time to go home, i was sort of upset. I took it personally, and it put me in a bad mood. I felt like things are changing etc and i can't depend on him. But then when we saw eachother again later that day, he just said he's tired and that's it,it has notihng to do with me. he loves seeing me and not every day can be a perfect day. I guess dealing with the "bad" days is just something that is normal in life and there's nothing to it. I think i may be immature and a little insecure for this to affect my mood and how i think he sees me. Is that a normal reaction for me to feel? How can i not let this affect me?
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People's moods affect you in the same way the weather and music affects you. It's inevitable, but you have to be able to distinguish genuine feelings and feelings resulting from those around you.