Saturday, 12 September 2009

• any advice?

  me and my bf are very close and have a pretty good reationship. but what really bothers me is when he brings up this other girl that he is very good friends with. and i get really jealous and posessive of him and upset. he tries to reassure me by teling me he likes me more and i'm better (more dependable and loyal) but he says she's prettier than me but i'm still "better" than her.  he tells me hee doesn't want me to think this is a competition, but that he just needs to let his emotions out and tell me what he's feeling. I understand his point but it bothers me because he goes back and forth with me and thinking i'm the "best". he told me that he wants to play the field when i go back to college ( even though i'm going to be coming home at least every other weekend to see him) but he thinks after that he will be mature and will probably want to be with me. He admits that he is immture but it  really upsets me that i feel unsure about him all the time, yet he tells me i don't need to be unsurebecause even if he is dating someone else he would still "hook up" with me and " be with me". so am i just going to be the "other woman" always?? he says he woul want to marry me but then he gets very fickle. i guess this isn't so atypical of a 19 year old boy but ive grown very attached to him that i'm scared to lose him.  he also tells m that when i go back to school, he doesn't want me to be with any other guy, yet he still wants to be able to be with other girls. my situation sort of sucks but i guess i should be happy with what i do have with him. i don't want to be with anyone else but if he is going to hook up with other ppl while i am away, i guess i should too and move on and have other options so i can be healthy and not so stuck right now.

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